You have many options. The car should be under you and your husband's name. If not, you have to use your POWER OF ATTORNEY that your husband SIGNED, before he left to Korea, in order to get another pink slip from DMV on his behalf. If you want to sell the car, you might also has to use the same power of attorney too. Nevertheless, in American property law, if you have your marriage documentation, his property is also yours. It is really depends on how you present your case. Sometimes you have to guide them because not everyone knows the right procedures.